The holidays are supposed to be about peace, love, and family. But for Ben Affleck, they’re shaping up to be anything but. The Oscar-winning actor is reportedly facing yet another round of seasonal chaos. Complete with competing guest lists, blended-family drama, and two very determined exes who both want a slice of his holiday time.
But while Thanksgiving dinner might sound wholesome enough, insiders say things are getting complicated behind the scenes. Once again, Ben Affleck finds himself juggling attention from Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez. Two women who don’t seem ready to give up their place in his orbit just yet.
Jennifer Lopez, 56, is allegedly trying to keep things upbeat. Sources tell Globe Magazine that she’s offered to whisk Ben and his kids off somewhere warm and picture-perfect for the holiday. She is hoping to bring her own twins, Emme and Max, into the mix for some blended-family bonding. Not to mention, pull him from Jen Garner’s proximity.
According to insiders, J.Lo’s trying to keep things “civil” after her divorce from Affleck earlier this year, even suggesting that time together could “heal old wounds.” She’s not ready to let go of her Ben era completely. The pop diva apparently wants one last round of picture-perfect family photos. Preferably beachside, with zero awkwardness and full glam.
Meanwhile, Jennifer Garner, 53, reportedly isn’t exactly thrilled about the tropical reunion idea. Though she’s currently enjoying her own low-key romance with boyfriend John Miller. However, insiders say she’s not rushing to hand over holiday time with her and Ben’s three kids, Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel.
‘Tis the Season for Ben’s Annual Ex-Factor Drama
After all, while J.Lo may have the glamour and the spotlight, but Garner has the ultimate leverage. She’s the mother of Ben’s children. And that, according to those close to her, gives her a certain quiet power in this ongoing love triangle.
For Jennifer Garner, it’s less about jealousy and more about keeping family traditions intact. And maybe, reminding everyone that she’s the one who truly knows “dad Ben.” Every November seems to bring the same script. Two Jennifers, one Affleck. And a holiday schedule caught in emotional crossfire. It’s almost become a Hollywood tradition at this point.
This time of year always seems to tug at Ben Affleck from both directions. On one hand, he’s got the ex-wife who keeps things grounded and family-focused. On the other hand, the glamorous superstar refuses to let her “Bennifer” chapter close completely.
It’s almost a competition now. Not just for his time, but for the narrative. And while both Jennifers claim to be moving on, their holiday maneuvering suggests otherwise. Affleck’s reportedly trying to keep things as smooth as possible, suggesting he might split his Thanksgiving between both exes. Something he’s apparently done before. The problem? Lopez wants the full experience, not a few passing hours before he jets back to L.A.
With two very different women vying for their own version of “happy holidays,” Ben Affleck’s Thanksgiving could easily turn into a scheduling nightmare. And while JLo’s chasing her dream of a drama-free family getaway, Garner’s making sure she remains the one constant presence in her children’s lives. And, like it or not, Ben’s life.
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