Jennifer Lopez has never been one to keep her personal life under wraps, but lately, she’s turning the volume up. She’s been spilling emotional tea through sultry performances and thinly veiled breakup anthems, and her ex-husband Ben Affleck has had enough. And he is not the only one.
Currently on her European tour, the 56-year-old pop icon has been baring more than just skin. Recently debuting two new songs from her album Sex Hysteria, Jennifer Lopez appears to take some lyrical jabs at ex-husband Ben Affleck, 52. Tracks like Up All Night and Wreckage Of You are jam-packed with not-so-subtle references to a love gone cold and a partner who left emotional scars.

While J.Lo is using the stage as her get-back-at-Ben revenge platform. Affleck isn’t here for it. According to the Daily Mail insiders, the actor finds her lyrical revenge childish and beneath his response. Rather than feeding the spectacle, he’s reportedly keeping his distance, refusing to dignify the digs with a reaction.
Ben Affleck is no stranger when it comes to dealing with Jennifer Lopez during a breakup. Having been the subject of her music in the past and even consulted on previous tracks, Affleck is far from surprised. But this time, the content is striking a different chord. With lyrics touching on emotional neglect and thinly veiled references to Affleck’s past struggles, the Batman star is reportedly unfazed, but not exactly thrilled.
Ben Affleck Isn’t Entertaining Jennifer Lopez Drama
While the heartbreak ballads grab headlines, it’s Jennifer Lopez’s risqué stage performances that are fueling the real spectacle. From simulated sex acts with dancers to graphic commentary on her bedroom preferences, the “Jenny from the Block” persona has been swapped for something far more NSFW.
Dressed in glitzy, revealing bodysuits, she’s straddling dancers, mimicking sex positions, and confessing to crowds that sometimes she “likes it hard.” The singer’s fans have quite a bit to say about her recent behavior, deeming it disgusting and humiliating for a woman her age with children.
“Get some therapy girl!!! Your kids will need it too!” writes one commenter.
“She has really debased herself now. I see what’s left of her career going down the tubes,” states another.
“I find her behaviour gross. What an example she is setting for girls.”
O. M. G. Are you serious? She actually DID THIS ON STAGE?? This is disgusting,” one more chimes in.
Jennifer Lopez seems determined to prove that heartbreak isn’t slowing her down, just heating things up. But as she leans hard into her boldest, most revealing era yet, one can’t help but wonder if the spectacle is less about empowerment and more about public payback. As for Ben Affleck? He’s staying quiet, offstage, and far from the splash zone.