Moving to England was supposed to be a fresh start for Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi, a chance to leave past controversies behind and embrace a quieter life. At first, it seemed like a dream relocation, privacy, and distance from Hollywood pressures. But behind the scenes, things are very different than the dream, especially for Portia.

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Sources say Portia de Rossi is struggling with her life alongside Ellen DeGeneres. While the pair have been together for 17 years, insiders claim the actress is beginning to feel overwhelmed by her spouse’s controlling behavior. Even mundane activities reportedly come with endless questioning and expectations. Ellen allegedly prefers constant companionship, leaving Portia little room to breathe, according to Globe insiders.
It’s not just about day-to-day activities. Friends close to the couple suggest Ellen DeGeneres’ dissatisfaction with life in England has intensified her need to micromanage Portia de Rossi. Ellen is reportedly struggling to make friends and adjust to her new environment. Family sources claim the former talk show host’s need to lean on Portia for support leaves her feeling trapped.
“Portia loves Ellen dearly, but she feels totally suffocated much of the time, because every aspect of her life is constantly micromanaged,” an insider confides.
Ellen DeGeneres’ Pattern of Possessiveness Leaves Portia de Rossi Looking For The Exit
Insiders note that this behavior isn’t entirely new. On set of The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Ellen reportedly displayed possessiveness toward Portia, particularly when male employees interacted with her. That possessiveness appears to have followed them abroad, making the actress feel increasingly stifled.

After years of accommodation, Portia is allegedly preparing to assert her needs. Sources claim she has set clear boundaries and is prepared to consider some time apart if Ellen cannot respect them. While she remains deeply devoted, Portia’s patience has limits. The future of their marriage, insiders suggest, now rests largely in Ellen’s hands.
Portia de Rossi has long been the steadfast partner, supporting Ellen DeGeneres through highs and lows. But as tensions mount, even the strongest bonds can fray. The couple’s move to England, meant to bring peace and renewal, has instead exposed cracks in their relationship. Whether Ellen can adjust and give Portia the space she needs may determine if their marriage survives or sends them barreling into divorce court.